Join our free workshop exclusively for heybaby members.

All genders welcome

Attracting the Partner You Want with Authentic Communication

You are brave – you want a relationship with another person – and kids. 

So how do you up your chances of success?

With kids in the mix, more is at risk. There is more to evaluate. There are more demands.

We enter into couples' relationships ill-trained. We are less trained on choosing a partner when kids are in the equation and, once we do, how to succeed.

In this workshop, we will go beyond exploring these concerns – we will begin to train you in using what may seem like hurdles as levers to choose and start a successful relationship with a partner and kids.

We will explore how to step out of limiting beliefs and behaviors that we inherited to discover that deeper desires and vulnerabilities are the keys that unlock ourselves and others to open the door to a relationship of connection.

Dalia Anderman, LMFT, uses her years of an Emotional Focus Therapist (EFT) to help individuals and couples find ways to connect when they have reached the limits of their skills. Sue Johnson, Ph.D. developer of EFT and one of our teachers, researched how authentic communication is what naturally brings us together. Dalia, with EFT, honed the art of teaching how to use innate abilities to be authentic – even when it’s difficult.

Owen Marcus, over the course of four decades, through his work in his integrative medical clinic and with men, developed an effective way to use our emotional physiology as a tool to down-regulate stress and up-regulate co-regulation (connection). EVRYMAN continues to train men in the simple skills most men never saw or were never taught. 

Join us. Have fun with others exploring what is possible on your journey to an extraordinary relationship.

As you discover hidden opportunities, you can learn:

• How not to waste your valuable time and energy finding that “perfect partner.”
• How to better know what you want.
• How to choose a partner from more than your head.
• How it's less about what are their flaws and more about how they deal with them.
• How to have a value discussion BEFORE you are in a relationship.
• How risking honesty and vulnerability is the best test if there could be a good relationship with that person.
• How others respond to your risking and imperfection guides you in your growth and selection.
• How having and wanting kids can help you focus and choose.
• Working with how you are also looking for the best relationship for kids when chances are you did not have that yourself.
• How to balance the need for excitement and security.
• What EFT couples therapy and EVRYMAN teach us on how to choose your best partner.